In the Hebrew Bible, the concept “he thought” is expressed as amar belibo – literally “he said in his heart.”

taken from Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Makhshava

In mid 2017, I suffered a miscarriage. 1 or 2 months later, my grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Shortly after the diagnosis, I discovered my husband’s extra martial affair with someone from work. We filed for divorce 3 weeks after the discovery. Divorce was finalized in 3 months, by end of February 2018, I was liberated enough to sing, “my chains are gone, I’ve been set free~”.

I went through a turbulent period of 6 months (the 5 stages of grief, is so real), it was the worst period of my 30 years of life. I slowly picked myself up with God’s love, tons of support from family and friends.

During the process of grieving and healing, I benefited from reading many self-help books. Real life stories of how ladies walked out stronger and better from divorce greatly encouraged me during my low time, partly assured that I won’t die from not being able to breathe after too much crying/wailing. I’m kidding but those texts perfectly strung, has its power, it inspires me and I was toying with the idea of publishing a book but procrastination always have a better hold of me. And the idea of starting small with a blog, popped into my head since I have always enjoy journaling.

The intention of this blog is to reach out, inspire, motivate, share insights, reflections and thoughts from my past experiences, spread love and encouragements (plus some occasional ventilation of my human feelings, just want to keep it as real as possible yet not to the extent of negative) to people out there, especially to the ones going through similar situation, do know that you are more than capable to deal with it. This works both ways, you are welcome to drop me a message and share some loves with me too!